Arranged Marriage
by Dewi Erita
Arranged
marriage is a marriage which is arranged by parents or relatives without involving
the bride for the one who will be their couple. Furthermore, many family still
perform this culture. Moreover, arranged marriage are carried out either by high
or middle low family. However, there are pros and conts about this.
Half people
agree with arranged marriage. Firstly, it is best decision for their son or
daughter. Secondly, parents know their child’s character. Thirdly, there is a special
purpose, such as to incorporate two companies or kingdoms. Fourthly, it can
adjust with the wedding cost. For instance, it can be cheaper for persons in middle
low income. Finally, it preserves culture and custom.
On the
other hand, half people disagree with arranged marriage. Firstly, relationship
should be based on love. Secondly, it isn’t modern style. Thirdly, it isn’t accordance
with the willingness. Fourthly, parents are supposed to believe in children
about their own future. Finally, parents don’t know the personality of their
children.
In conclusion,
I believe that whether those decision is good or not depends on their belief,
knowledge, condition and purpose of life. They can have delighted marriage
with arranged marriage. They are also able to be happy without arranged
marriage.
Depok, February 5th , 2017
